Custody Reminders

Custody reminders help co-parents stay focused on what matters most—the child’s well-being. They emphasize following the court order, communicating respectfully, being consistent, and keeping the child out of conflict.

Custody
Work Together
Parents working together to raise their child is good for both the child and the parents. Co-parenting starts with good communication and involves problem-solving, conflict management, and supporting each other—even when you disagree.
Parents are Not Perfect

The other parent may not be parenting your child to the level of care that you desire. However, that does not mean the other parent is being neglectful. The Court can only enforce a “reasonable degree” of care and supervision. A simple mistake, or error in judgment, will not necessarily result in a change in custody or parenting time.

If you believe the other party in your case is violating your custody order, you may submit a written complaint to the Friend of the Court with specific facts showing the violation. If the Friend of the Court determines that your complaint shows a violation of your order, the office will take steps to enforce your order.

Help is Available
Community Mental Health for Central Michigan (CMHCM) offers services for families, including family skills training. Please contact the office in your county for more information.
The Court Speaks Through Its Written Orders

Only written orders are enforceable. Therefore, the FOC only has authority to enforce written orders of the Court. If you feel the order does not agree with what happened during your court hearing, contact your FOC caseworker for instructions. If your caseworker cannot assist you, you may file a motion asking the court to correct the written order.